As you get to know him better, you may feel differently toward him. So which are you feeling? It may be hard to know (though lust is a pretty easy feeling to identify). Take your time to process your feelings. But with love, you can be yourself, and you recognize that neither of you is perfect. It may take longer to blossom as you open yourself up to a man and get to know him in return. If you’re always eager to jump in bed with this guy, but really don’t get that much out of spending time with him otherwise, you’re likely in lust, not love.īut love sweet love is total and consuming…and it lasts. You can feel lust for someone that you have no emotional or intellectual connection with (that’s pretty much the definition of the hookup). Lust, on the other hand, is more based on physical attraction. You may build him up to be something better than he is simply because that’s what you want. Infatuation is a temporary state, so if this feeling starts to fade, you know that it’s not love. Infatuation is often more based on the idea or fantasy of a person than the reality. He hasn’t texted you back in 49 minutes! He must be out with another woman! Editor’s note: Ready to attract love with a proven strategy? Watch this free video to learn the 7 powerful steps
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